If, perhaps, imagine ... are dangerous words and they can make us crazy. If you constantly think "if I ", "might be, " "imagine that" we would never be able to be happy. We should not put things into question, think how things would have been. But think about how things are now. Why thinking about what could have been if we had take different decisions?! If we took some decisions, it's because at that moment we wanted or thought it was the best. So there is no interest in tormenting us about any possibilities. We must live with what we have at present, and possibly change it in the future. What happened before is past, so is no interest in thinking about it. We can't live the past again but we can live the present and the future. We can't change the past, but we can change the present and the future.
So keep the past in memory but don't live in it. ;)
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