quarta-feira, 13 de julho de 2011

Each is as he is and I'm proud to be as I am

Often  we say after being hurt that we will not fall in love so soon  but it's stupid because we know that we will. Even if someone breaks our heart we can't live without love. 
We need to feel us loved by someone. 
We need to feel us unique.
We need have someone who makes us feel happy. 
We need have someone on our side. 
It's so nice to feel someone's lips kissing our lips 
It's so nice fall in sleep in someone's arms 
It's so nice to know well a person so well as we know well ourselves 
It's so nice to be able to end the sentence of each other 
It's  so nice to be in love with someone
It's so nice to be in sync with someone 
Love can hurt us and be cruel but it's also the best thing that can happen. 
My friends ask me often how like to being single for so long already. It's not a question of like to being single or not but a question of finding the right man. Why starting a relation just because a man likes me if I don't like him in the same way?! Why taking the risk of hurting someone if you can avoid it?!
The most people now think about having pleasure and fun but don't think about the rest. I don't see any good thing that I will win in a relation that I know will not have any future. So yes I prefer to be alone  than in a relation that I don't want. A relation is not easy so certainly not when we don't have the same feelings. A relation is much more than telling everybody you have a boy/girlfriend, having fun, having relations, etc.
It means respecting the person, have trust and be trust by a person, don't give up at the first problem, put aside what we want for the person, make some efforts, etc. 
Unfortunately the most people have no idea about all this or they don't care about it.
I will hardly regret something because every time I will have a boyfriend it will be because I love him. And the day I will take one of the most important decision of my life, it will be because I will be sure that he's the right person for me. Not perfect for everybody but perfect for me!

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