Life isn't unfair!We are unfair with life!

People say often that life makes us who we are
But I'm not agree
It's true that life is not always nice with us, but we can choose to be who we are
If I would think as the most people, I would be a cold person, without principles, without respect for other ones
I would be an egoistic person with completely different dreams
But I'm not a person like that and my dreams are in fact different of those of other people, but they are good. Instead of being like the people I see around me and those who hurt me once, I became the opposite of all those people.
Maybe because life wasn't always easy and friendly to me, maybe because I went through all those difficult moments, that now I can give some things their true value. Instead of devalue as most people
Life isn't an valid excuse for what happens
Life isn't unfair, we are unfair with life, because many of you blame life for everything
It's of course easier to say that it's not our fault, that we deserve better and we are victims of life. But we are the ones we act, who take decisions. We are the bosses of ourselves, so we have to blame us.
Life can have some influence but the last decision is always ours
We can fight to get where we want, we will fail sometimes. But the secret is not to give up. Life is constantly put us to the test, it's up to us to proof her what is our value and what we deserve!
So stop complaining  of the life you have, and proves to the world what's your worth!