"I love you" is a phrase so used in our days that I only believe in acts. People don't know any more what means to love someone, they just say it without thinking. Years ago girls dreamed about hearing a guy telling her "I love you". Personally, now I dream about not hearing a guy telling me that phrase, because now it seems so fake. I will only believe in little acts that can make all the difference.
I can't understand how some girls can be happy to hear that phrase when it's something used just to please them. Yes to please, because you don't think that every guy is honest when he says it?! It so easy to say these three words, the difficulty is showing them. How many times did a guy said it to you and didn't show it?! Love someone doesn't mean saying "I love you" or invite her to the restaurante but doing something that shows you really love that person. Doing some efforts even if you don't get the wished result. The most important is that you made an effort, that you tried to do something special for that person. A lot of girls are happy when guys offer them jewelry. I can't understand why?!If it's for a really special occasion or with a special objective, ok. But giving you just for birthday or just because he wanted, is so stupid. Don't you think he would show you much more how special you are for him if he offer you a special photo from you two, or just a walk somewhere with a great view?! Why is people so materialistic now?! It seems like they can't enjoy little moments that can be even more special than big ones. It's seems like they don't know anymore what means true love, because when you love someone, every moment is great no matter what and where. And it's not a phrase or material that will make it better. But that's only my opinion! ;)
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